trip to and from calcutta-07/12 -20/12/09

AFTER A GAP OF 3 WEEKS WRITING IN BLOG.
WENT TO CALCUTTA AFTER 2 YEARS WITH TAPU,SHE WENT TO SEE HER MOTHER WHO IS SUPPOSED TO HAVE A CATARACT OPERATION,WHICH FINALLY DID NOT TAKE PLACE DUE TO LACK OF KNOWLEDGE AND PROPER COMMUNICATIONS.OF COURSE I WENT MAINLY TO SEE MY MOTHER WHO IS NOT WELL DUE TO
HER OLD AGE AND PROPER ACTIVITIES.
THE PROBLEM IS SHE DOES NOT WALK AT ALL ,MOST OF THE TIME ON BED.
I FEAR A DAY WILL COME WHEN HER LEGS WILL GIVE UP.
MY PRESENT SITUATION CAN'T SUPPORT HER FINANCIALLY, I SHOULD HAVE ENGAGE A PHYSIOTHERAPIST BUT FAILED,PREYING GOD TO HELP TO DO MY DUTY AT THE EARLIEST.

I DON'T HAVE A SHELTER IN CALCUTTA,THIS IS ONE OF THE SAD PART IN MY LIFE.
AT ONE POINT WE WERE TOLD THAT TAPU'S MOTHER WILL GIVE HER HOUSE TO TAPU FOR HER
CONTRIBUTION TOWARDS HER FAMILY BUT THAT COMMITMENT SEAMS TO BE FADING AS THERE
ARE TOO MUCH POLITICS WITH IN SISTERS,EVERY ONE TRYING TO SHOW THEIR POWER,SISTERS
ARE FIGHTING LIKE CATS AND DOGS TO SHOW THEIR SUPREMACY.
AT THIS MOMENT WE ARE BELLOW BOTTOM LINE HENCE WE DON'T HAVE ANY SAY.

IN OUR HOUSE ALSO THINGS ARE NO BETTER,THE SMALL PCS OF LAND WHICH MY FATHER
EARNED THROUGH PARTITION AMONG THEIR BROTHERS THAT NOT YET TRANSFERRED IN MY MOTHER'S NAME,ONCE THAT IS DONE THE SAME CAN BE DISTRIBUTED WITH IN HER CHILDREN,
THOUGH IT WOULD BE TO SMALL BUT AFTER ALL A PLACE FOR LEAVING.
WIVES OF MY YOUNGER BROTHER'S RAISED THIS ISSUE DURING MY VISIT THIS TIME- I SAID
THEM ONCE THEY ARE READY I SHALL BE AT CALCUTTA TO DO MY BEST TO SORT OUT THE ISSUE.
BESIDES INDIVIDUAL ELECTRIC METER A WATER LINES ARE ALSO TO BE ARRANGED,IT IS HUGE TASK AND MONEY MATTER.
I BELIEVE THINGS ARE TO BE DONE ONE BY ONE.

MET SHIBU ,SOW MANY KNOWN FACES,SPOKEN WITH FEW OF THEM ,SOW ANU TOO AT A GLANCE.
SOME HOW I FIND IT DIFFICULT TO FIT MYSELF IN THAT ATMOSFARE.SHIBU IS ALSO LEAVING
IN HIS WORLD,FOR ME IT IS TOTALLY DEFERENT,
DON'T KNOW HOW TO ADJUST WITH CHANGES BUT IT IS TRUE THINGS CHANGES WITH TIME AND
SITUATIONS.